second-opinion-divorce-consultationsWhen you consider that there are no “do-overs” in divorce, you want your one shot at a favorable settlement or trial to be your best one. (Otherwise, you might find yourself back in court requesting modifications at a later time.) If the first attorney you speak with has given you a reason to doubt his or her ability to handle your case, or if you do not feel as if you will receive the support and guidance you need from your representation, it might be time for a second opinion.

Just think about what you do when you receive a diagnosis of a dire medical condition. In that instance, you would likely seek a second and maybe even a third opinion, right? The outcome of your divorce is going to have a significant impact on your financial life and the lives of your children. Getting a second opinion may serve to reassure you that you’re on the right track, or may validate your concerns about the advice you have already received.

When do you get a second opinion on your divorce?

If you have met with an attorney and are not sure if he or she is right for you, ask yourself these questions:

  • Does your divorce case seem to be more complex than you originally thought?
  • Do you feel uncomfortable discussing your needs with the first attorney you met?
  • Do you disagree with the first attorney’s assessment of your case?
  • Will you actually be working with the attorney you spoke with?
  • Did the attorney seem preoccupied during your visit, or dismissive of your needs?

With the amount of money you will pay, the amount of time you will be working with him or her, and the stakes of your divorce, you should feel perfectly comfortable with your chosen family lawyer’s level of skill in handling your divorce, and you should feel confident in the level of communication you will receive.

If you are not satisfied with the strategy or approach of the first divorce attorney you meet with, if he or she is not aggressive enough, or if you feel the lawyer might be taking a more adversarial approach than you believe is necessary, you should get a second opinion. If you have any questions or concerns about your divorce, please call 615-391-4200 or fill out our contact form to schedule an in-person or video consultation with the trusted Nashville divorce lawyers at Miller Upshaw Family Law, PLLC.